Love Tried with Time

Is it possible to overcome the difficulties and safe the love?

Psychologists mark out several dangerous periods of family life. Such division is very relative. The periods can vary with circumstance in one or another family. But if you studied them and drawn true conclusions it will be easier to cope with crisis at the beginning and safe the love.

The 1st Year or Disillusion

The newly married couple learns to understand each other and take into consideration their half's opinion. Being an ideal creation before marriage your beloved turns into a flesh and blood creature with her habits and shortcomings. An exceeding female emotionality causes resentment that cools relationship. Relations are tried with everyday proximity. Understanding that woman mentality differs from man's perception helps you to survive this period. Try to discuss hard parts right away. It is difficult to achieve mutual understanding over that. Don't be sparing of declaration and compliments (It is very important things for women. Not without reason is it said women love with ears but men with eyes). Prove your feelings by word and deed.

The 3rd Year or Having a Baby

The next complicated phase of married life is the child's birth. This happy occasion is testing the durability of couple's relations. When the third comes into the world husband fully bears responsibility for material welfare of the family. It takes many strength and time. But at this stage woman is in need of man's help, attention, care and endearments. Husband feels himself thrown as newborn requires incessant attention of the young mother. Joint emotional experience of pregnancy, conjointly nursing for baby help you to draw together.

The 7th Year or Everyone has his own lessons

This period is connected with increase of the family's material needs. Children went to school, parents active work, get a promotion, do the best for their family. But a career takes many time and strength. It can destroy even harmonious couple's relations. It is important to cultivate family occasion, anniversaries and birthdays at this period. Observe father's mother's or schoolchildren's success. Common troubles and waiting holiday unite a family in friendship. Create joy together!

The 15th Year or Hard Age

Teenager is a detector of the value of a family. Adolescent's problems demand of devotion and participation of both parents. Now unity and brotherhood are impotent for a couple as well as at the early years of their marriage. The main pitfall of this period is loss of patience. This is the occasion to become wiser and more progressive. Don't lecture your child concern yourself with modern youth culture.

The 25th Year or Together Again

When children grown up, people have a look around a spent life. Common cares vanished and some spouses lose an interest in the partner's person. Age-related changes provoke worsening of health, character. It is possible that spouses make your half nervous, find fault with everything, conflict. Don't forget your family is very valuable enterprise. You put so much time, effort, energy, moral forces therein . Now you can love, enjoy each other, travel, renew lost connections with relatives. Age isn't obstacle for the true love.